3. Make Peace with Food: Wave the white flag and end the food war. When you stop viewing chocolate cake as a villain ad, you take the power away from the binge-eating monster under your bed.
Action Step: Give yourself unconditional permission to eat. When you tell yourself that you can’t or shouldn’t have a particular food, it can lead to intense feelings of deprivation and, ultimately, uncontrollable cravings.
4. Challenge the Food Police: Those nagging thoughts that patrol your food choices? Time to give them the boot. Eating a cookie doesn’t make you a criminal, just human.
Action Step: Banish the notion of “good” and “bad” foods. Give yourself permission to enjoy all foods in moderation, cultivating a positive relationship with food.
5. Discover the Satisfaction Factor: Eating should be a pleasure, not a math problem. The Japanese have it right — food is one of life’s great joys. When was the last time you truly savored your meal without the guilt?
Action Step: Make your eating experience enjoyable. Sit down to eat, serve your food on a nice plate, and create an inviting eating environment. This helps you feel satisfied and content.
6. Feel Your Fullness: Imagine your stomach is having a polite conversation with your brain. It’s not about silencing the chat with a “shush,” but rather tuning in to when it says, “Thanks, I’m good now.”
Action Step: Pause in the middle of eating and ask yourself how the food tastes, and your current hunger level. Learning to recognize when you’re comfortably full is a key step in Intuitive Eating.
7. Cope with Your Emotions with Kindness: Food is often a Band-Aid for our emotions. Acknowledge your feelings, but don’t let them drive you to the fridge.
Action Step: Find ways to comfort, nurture, distract, and resolve your issues without using food. Anxiety, loneliness, boredom, and anger are emotions we all experience, but food won’t fix any of these feelings.
8. Respect Your Body: It’s time to unsubscribe from the unrealistic body standards newsletter. Respect and love your body like a cherished friend, not a project to be fixed.
Action Step: Accept your genetic blueprint. Just as a person with a shoe size of eight would not expect to squeeze into a size six, it’s futile to have a similar expectation about body size.
9. Movement — Feel the Difference: Exercise should be like a spontaneous dance party, not a military drill. It’s about feeling good, not just burning calories.
Action Step: Shift your focus to how it feels to move your body, rather than the calorie-burning effect of exercise. Focusing on how you feel from working out can make the difference between rolling out of bed for a brisk morning walk or hitting the snooze alarm.
10. Honor Your Health — Gentle Nutrition: Eating healthy isn’t about perfection; it’s about balance and enjoyment. One indulgent meal won’t derail your health, just like one salad won’t make you a health guru.
Action Step: Make food choices that honor your health and taste buds while making you feel well. Remember that you don’t have to eat perfectly to be healthy. Consistency will go a long way.
Getting Started with Intuitive Eating
Transitioning to an intuitive eating lifestyle may require some time, patience, and a compassionate mindset. Here are a few tips to help you embark on this journey:
Seek Support: Find resources, books, or communities that promote Intuitive Eating. Connecting with like-minded individuals can offer invaluable guidance and inspiration.
Practice Mindfulness: Cultivate present-moment awareness during meals, savoring each bite and paying attention to your body’s signals. Slow down and truly enjoy your food.
Seek Professional Guidance: If you feel overwhelmed or unsure about starting Intuitive Eating on your own, consider consulting a registered dietitian or therapist specializing in this approach.
Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection: Intuitive Eating is a lifelong process, and it’s important to remember that progress is not linear. Celebrate small victories along the way and be kind to yourself.
Additional Resources
By embracing Intuitive Eating, you can tap into your inner wisdom and become the expert on your own body. If this seems scary or you are struggling (especially important if you have an eating disorder, trauma or a medical condition) you many want to consider working with a qualified health professionals. There are over a thousand Certified Intuitive Eating Counselors and support groups on IntuitiveEating.org.
Intuitive Eating isn’t just about eating. It’s a journey towards self-compassion, understanding, and breaking free from the shackles of diet culture. It’s about rediscovering the joy of eating and listening to your body. So, this New Year, why not give yourself the gift of Intuitive Eating and savor the flavor of freedom? After all, life’s too short for another kale-only detox.